During the process of my weightloss, very few of my friends and family knew what I was doing. Many hadn’t seen me at all. It was as if I went to another planet for a while. I was even missing in action from all internet social networks. I wanted to focus on my goal without any disstractions. Sometimes, people fail on what they want to do because they get disstracted easily. You have to do what’s best for you so that you can accomplish your goals.
I updated my weightloss album on facebook every 2-3 months to inform people of my current process. Then people wouldn’t hear from me until the next update. Each time I updated, comments flooded my pictures, my wall, and inboxes. People wanted to know what exactly I was doing to drop weight so fast, but yet healthy.
As stated before, I lost my first 23 lbs in my first two months of working out, and I lost my first 60 lbs in 7 months. Eventually, I went on to complete 70 lbs within a year’s time. People were amazed at what I was doing and how my body was transitioning. It was my determination to make sure I did my very best so that each updated picture would show a change. There were people inboxing me from all over the world. Some of these people were strangers. It was amazing to me that so many people were inspired by what I was doing.
I hit the streets and met up with some friends after I completed my transformation. Word hit the newspapers fast when everybody saw me for the first time in a very long time. I instantly became some sort of “WeightLoss Hero.” It felt like I had the letters W.L.H. written across my chest with a cape tied around my neck. I will never forget some of the expressions on my friends’ faces. They couldn’t believe their eyes. I was a whole new person to them. I felt like I was on top of the world. All my sacrifices and hard work finally paid off.
I was cocky indeed. Medical professionals, physicians, personal trainers, etc. couldn’t tell me nothing. I successfully came up with my own workout and eating plan and did it on my own. Along the way, I did a little research and took advice from others. But at the end of the day, I incorporated my own plan. I wanted to be able to say I did it without someone else trying to take the credit. I didn’t take no pills of no sort or have no surgery done. I proved that if you put your mind to something, you can do it all natural.
After finishing the 2009 Detroit Marathon, I definitely knew I could do anything I put my mind to. Besides, how many people you know personally that can run 26 miles? I’ve had personal trainers and professionals ask me how did I lose the weight so successfully and how did I run a marathon. I may not have a certificate behind my whole “weightloss” background experience, but I think you pretty much can agree that I do know what I’m talking about and you can see the proof for yourself with my pictures 🙂
People couldn’t believe how big my gut was. Well, that’s because I used to wear my shirts big attempting to try to hide the fat. It felt good when I went shopping and actually can fit into a small or medium shirt. Another thing to keep in mind about weightloss is that it can become very expensive at first. You have to change your whole wardrobe and buy all new clothes. But in my opinion, this is a good thing. I rather buy a whole new wardrobe and feel good about myself rather than shopping in the “big” section and feeling bad about the way I look.
Many people told me how inspiring my story is and how I inspire them to want to lose weight. During the most part of year 2010, most people felt like Lois Lane when SuperMan left her to return to his planet. I was quiet for a while and people wondered if I had given up or gained weight again. What happened to Rob? Where is he? For the most part, I was there physically, but not mentally. I went into hiding like Anne Frank in fear of facing the people who had known me as the “Inspirational Weightloss Hero” to the fact that I had gained a few pounds again.
I felt like I let the people down. Most importantly, I felt like I let myself down. I worked so hard for my goal and it was heading down the drain fast. I began to remember the puddles of sweat I used to clean up after my workouts. I began to remember the people who looked up to me. How can I change the world and inspire others if I wasn’t leading by example? I wanted to prove my haters wrong. Some said I would let myself go and get fat again. Some even said that I wasn’t strong enough to even accomplish such a goal. I wanted to keep their words buried so I knew what I had to do.
I got back to my diet August 2010 and lost 25 lbs by October 2010, just 2 short months. Now I’m about 15-18 lbs away from my weight when I first dropped my 70 pounds. But this is my battle, this is my adventure. In the meantime, I will inspire others and guide you all. But each day, I face the same fears, temptations and worries that you do. I’m my own weightloss hero and to be honest, it’s “the people” that keeps me inspired with this whole thing.
I appreciate each one of you who have told me that I’ve inspired them. The words you say to me makes me continue to be your weightloss hero. If I’m going to inspire others about living healthier and losing weight, then I must lead by example, right? Besides, would you take advice from someone who was trying to tell you how to grow a garden if they never grew one themselves? As a weightloss hero, like any other hero, I have weaknesses too. I’m human as well. I ask that while you’re on your weightloss plan, that you continue to pray for me as well. Thank you and goodluck to you all 🙂